My first 2 weeks were difficult due to my new entrance in the family.
I did not know rules and this did not help because most of the time the mum was incoherent in her behaviour, but wanted that children behave according to normal rules as not eating in front of TV. I was strict and "mean". The oldest daughter hated me and this was heartbreaking.
Today I wrote her a letter of peace. I just hope that things will improve otherwise it will be very hard.
In these days I got in contact with many au pairs thanks to fb. It was really good to have their feedback and suggestions. We visited together the Blarney castle and Cork:-)
I did not know rules and this did not help because most of the time the mum was incoherent in her behaviour, but wanted that children behave according to normal rules as not eating in front of TV. I was strict and "mean". The oldest daughter hated me and this was heartbreaking.
Today I wrote her a letter of peace. I just hope that things will improve otherwise it will be very hard.
In these days I got in contact with many au pairs thanks to fb. It was really good to have their feedback and suggestions. We visited together the Blarney castle and Cork:-)
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